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History and Use Of: The Agrimony Plant

AgrimoniaEupatoriaThe Argimony Eupatoria is also known by other various names such as…

  • Church Steeples
  • Cocklebur
  • Philanthropos
  • and Stickwort

All of which belong to the Rose – Rosaceae plant family.

Agrimony is a pretty plant, bearing spikes of tiny yellow flowers that are reminiscent of church steeples and fruit with hooked bristles at the top (cockleburs).



What You Need To Know About Agrimony

  • Habitat – grows wild alongside roadways, in fields and the woods. Agrimony is available in dried form (both cut and powdered), liquid extract, and essential oil. It may be planted in home gardens in temperate climates Zones 6-9.
  • Range – native to Europe, and cultivated in much of the United States and Southern Canada
  • Identification of Plant – Argimony is a perennial plant.  It grows 2-3 feet tall, with upright mature brown stem covered in soft silky fibers (hairs), the leaves are also covered in the same silky hairs.  If you look at the plant above you will see the leaves are alternate having leaflets arranged on each side of the primary leaf.  Notice the leaves are coarsely toothed and jagged.  At the very top of the stem is where you will see numerous clusters of small yellow flowers blooming between the months of July and August.
  • Scent Profile: Aromatic, Pungent, Lemony, Apricot (flowers)
  • Medicinal Properties – used as an anti-inflammatory, antibiotic, and astringent are all due to the presence of large quantities of tannin in the plant.  Herbalists today use the flowering stem tips and dried leaves as a tonic and diuretic, and for digestive disorders, including diarrhea.  The plant is also applied to slow-healing wounds.  Agrimony is an ingredient of herbal and tisane teas.
  • Be Aware – Hooked bristles at the upper end of the bur-like fruit will stick to clothing and animal fur.
  • Precautions – Agrimony is said to be one of the safest herbs and has been used as a food/home remedy for thousands of years.  As long as you are not allergic to the plant, it is hard to imagine any harm coming from its moderate use.

Folklore & Magical Properties

  • Although Argimony has no narcotic properties, tradition holds that when placed under a person’s head, it will induce a deep sleep that will last until it is removed.  It is said dried Agrimony used in dream pillows aids in a good night’s sleep.
  • Agrimony brings good luck, and bright, warm energy to magickal workings.
  • Wear or carry Agrimony to help build up psychic shields.
  • Use in purifying incenses and sachets, especially to repel the ill-wishes of others.
  • Correspondences: Jupiter, Air

Disclaimer: Always, use common sense when consuming any herb. Only use herbs from trusted, pesticide-free sources. Discard infusions within a day or two, and never take essential oils internally.

Occult properties of herbs are provided for historical interest only, and no outcome is guaranteed. Nothing on this website should be taken as medical or legal advice. Please use herbs responsibly.

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Today’s Menu Eat It Or Go Hungry

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How true this is for me.  So, much so I had my husband put this saying on our kitchen cabinet today.  I LOVE it! Today’s menu eat it or go hungry because this Mama doesn’t run a restaurant.

Thanks to our friends over at The Stencilsmith for scaling the stencil down for us so it fit perfectly on the cabinet door.  They are friendly, helpful folks and all our stencils used for our DIY home projects come from them.

We’ve had the stencil for months now and waited until the right inspiration hit as to exactly how it was going to be done.  Rick, my husband took the cabinet door off the hinges, went to his workshop and pondered until this idea came to him.

He taped off the outer edges with painting tape to expose only the center surface and used black chalkboard spray paint, once dried he applied the stencil on in white to match the cabinets and this was the result!

If we ever decide to ever move we just repaint back to basic white like nothing was ever there!  Never stenciled before?  Here are some great tips for getting started.

What do you think?  Until next time,

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The Black Hole: Defeat Is Not Permanent

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At this point and time in my life, there are no words said better than those spoken by the late and great American poet, singer, memoirist, and female civil rights activist, Maya Angelou.  Which goes as follows:

  • “Life is full of many defeats and it is useful to remember that defeat is not permanent.  We can always keep trying.  To be defeated means that you have given up and have let bitterness rule your heart.  Do not let your defeats crush you.  Instead, pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and try again.”


In 52 years I have endured a plethora of defeats.  Often at times falling into the jaws of what I call the black hole of dark defeatism that literally took me to the brink of death a time or two.  Everyone has a story, everyone has met defeat plenty of times and there will be many more to come.

I recognize the terms such as those often voiced to someone who is in “defeat mode” as they are reaching out for understanding, to be a defeat in its own entirety.   Words like….

  • Get over it
  • Everyone has problems
  • Buck up
  • Deal with it
  • Move on
  • I’ve been through that, I got over it…….. and so on and so forth

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If you are reading this and have said these things to another look at it from a different point of perspective.  What if this was you in the exact moment defeat hit you?  How would it feel to have it said to you, and, you probably have.

A Person Facing Defeat Needs:

  • Understanding
  • Validation
  • Affirmation
  • Time To Heal or Deal
  • Someone To Check In A Couple Times A Week (having just one person like this can save a life)

Someone who has entered what I call the “black hole phase” often has gone beyond the superficial defeat and “brushing it off”.  They can fall into a depressive state that can progress.  If it takes longer than a couple of weeks and you are still feeling this way it may be time to talk it out with an impartial person.

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Defeat is not permanent.  It will feel like it, it will hurt, it will make you angry and frustrated, these are the emotions you need to FEEL so you can beat it.  Never say never, and never give up.

 Until Next Time

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Recipe For: Gourmet Italian Sweet Cream


Bring your own personal Barista within out!  Whether you like coffee with your cream or cream with your coffee my recipe for homemade Gourmet Italian Sweet Cream coffee creamer holds no calories back.  This is a rich, full body, luscious creamer that will have your toes curling with goodness.  The only way to accomplish this is with REAL heavy cream.  That’s right, no skinny, minny, mojo whatever latte with water-“milk”.  That does not work with this gal.  Coffee is my number one vice in my life and I hold nothing back.  No imitation stuff up in here, up in here!

Okay, let’s get to the recipe! 

What You Need

  • 1 – 14 oz Can of Sweetened Condensed Milk
  • 14 oz (1 3/4 cup) Organic Heavy Whipping Cream
  • 2 Whole Organic Vanilla Beans Scraped Clean
  • 1 Teaspoon Pure Almond Extract (not imitation)
  • Large Container w/Lid (Old Store Creamer Bottle, Mason Jar)

How To Make

  1. To your container add sweetened milk, heavy cream, extract and your vanilla beans
  2. Tighten your lid and… shake shake shake, shake shake shake, shake your booty, shake your booty, baby.  This way you can burn a few calories off before using it 🙂  Shake for about 3 minutes.  You want it to blend really well.
  3. Mark your container with the same expiration date that came on your heavy cream container.
  4. Shake well between each use.

That’s it, honest, no really, that is all there is to making homemade cream.  No funny chemicals just pure goodness.  Oh, how could I forget?  You may need some amazing organic fair trade coffee with that cream.

I will be posting some lower calorie ones, I promise, in the meantime live life to its richest potential.

Until Next Time – Enjoy!


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Coffee and Roses: The Garden Experiement

If you love to grow roses and are a coffee drinker this gardening experiment I did will be right up your alley!  Coffee and roses, what’s not to love right?  Makes me kinda giddy all over thinking about them as a couple.  Hey, they say, opposites attract.

Three years ago I came across an article about using spent coffee grounds as a natural fertilizer for roses because coffee is high in nitrogen, plus to perform their best roses need neutrality to acidic soil.  This means by adding the grounds it will aid in the pH balance from neutral to acidic which roses thrive on and I’ve experienced it first hand.  It also helps loosen the soil, which gives the roots more space to grow and helps to deliver the nutrients they need to survive.

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I live in Tucson, Arizona which falls under Zone 9 Gardening  (if you want to know yours click here) and growing things here is a huge challenge but can be done.  Above is this year’s first bloom of “Queenie” our oldest rose bush who came with our home 8 years ago.  Queenie always had nice soft pink blooms, rather small, and never had a fragrance other than a “peppery” smell.  I decided to take that articles advice to see if I could improve on my rose bush.  Afterall, I am a coffee-o-holic so grounds are never short supplied at my house.

In the Fall of 2016, this mad scientist started saving coffee grounds.  Trust me when I say in my household it doesn’t take long.  I keep a large bowl on my countertop once the coffee is made, I empty filter from grounds into the bowl.  That’s it, seriously.  I let those grounds pile up, take the bowl outside and mix it into a little fresh garden soil (you don’t have to, just something I do) and I use three handfuls of the mixture around the base of the rose bush close to the root evenly than do a drip soak to allow the coffee to seep into the ground.  I do this twice a month.

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2016 – Spring.  I noticed my rose leaves were getting a deeper green color with some shine.  Prior to the experiment, they were dull green with yellowish edges and semi-lifeless. Okay, improvement so let’s keep going.  The first bloom of the season came along, Queenie produced about 3/4 more blooms! Still no scent improvement.  Continued coffee treatment for 6 months then the hard part…I stopped … experiment after all.  Now to wait and see.

2017 – Queenie still gets her normal rose feed, water, and conversation with me but no coffee.  She went back to being pretty but sad looking compared to 2016.  Blooms were sparse, leaves green but no shine, back to how she was prior to 2016. 😦 just a bit better.

2018 – I started the coffee fertilization again in January 2018.  Queenie had her first bloom April 2, 2018, she apparently is one happy rosie lady.  She made an amazing transformation and I must say, she loves coffee as much as I do and I started all my roses on the coffee regimen.  Look at the leaves, shiny, healthy and perky.  I never knew she had a two-tone pink coloration since I’d never seen it before and the coffee brought that out!  You can see for yourself.  The best part….scent!  OMGosh in 8 years all I smelled was a pepper like scent and now she has a soft rosie fragrance.   I call the experiment a success, don’t you?


  • One way is to just put the coffee grinds in a compost heap with other waste from your kitchen, sprinkling the mixture around the roses.
  • Another method is to just sprinkle plain, dried up grounds at the base of your roses.
  • Additionally, you can mix 3 parts coffee grounds with 1 part wood ash to mix into the soil around the plants.
  • Finally, you can mix about a 1/2 pound of used grounds with 5 gallons of water for a mixture you can pour on the rose bushes about twice a month.  (My now preferred choice)

Oh and remember this, astonishingly as it may seem, bugs and pests are repelled by coffee grounds. Coffee is one of the few treats we enjoy that the pests won’t try to snag from our kitchens, or gardens, for themselves. Lovin’ it.

Be Well,

~J~ from Doing It Jamie Style

P.S. Speak with your local garden nursery for more advice on this tip and many others for your garden.  They’ll be happy you asked them!